"If You Think Your Relationships Are Valuable... Then Consider Investing In The Best Investment In The World - With An Unlimited Rate Of Return--- 

"Invest in Yourself."

'1-on-1' or 'Couples' Sessions are available.

Experience has shown that a 2- 2.5 hour session is most effective the 1st time we do "The Work" together. After that 1-1.5 hours per meeting is appropriate.

Let's Work Stressful thoughts such as:

1) "Nobody Loves Me" - Learn How To Create The Loving Relationships You Crave

2)  Introduction to "The Work" of Byron Katie 
                                        Book Study of "Loving What Is" & I Need Your Love- Is it True?

3)  I need _____ in order to be happy.
  _____ was supposed to make me happy. He/She shouldn't have left me

4)  Parenting & Kids:
 Surviving The Homework Overload, listening skills, bullying, your dislike of their friends, they need to get better grades, and they’re disrespectful...My kids should listen to me, they don't appreciate me, they should do their homework, The School should____, my child needs to go to college... I am responsible for their happiness

5)  Get Real- so You Can Get Over It! (Works for every issue)

6)   Money-
 beliefs about $$$$ and its power, how YOU control others with it,  Power Struggles, trying to  / failing to keep it protected and safe, lack of, Rich people have it made, Poor people are losers, Money = Power, etc...

7)  Relationships-
 Business, parent/child, romantic, You and your family when growing up,  friendships, or r lack of meaningful relationships, how 'they' could be better,
Marriage is supposed to be ____, I am all alone, I am lonely

8)  My Body is ___-
 too fat, unattractive, too old, should be healthier, should be able to make a baby,...

9)  Death and Dying-
 I will be all alone soon, He/She shouldn't have died, I wish I was dead .
 ____ shouldn't have suffered, I am sick and going to die soon- and that means ____

10)  Addictions-
 He/She shouldn't drink, I am too fat, he is a workaholic, they shouldn't do drugs.....I need a boyfriend to be happy,  food makes me feel better,  People shouldn't smoke,  Alcohol makes me ____, etc

11)  Work-
 My customers should ___, my boss is____, I am underpaid, I hate this job, the company doesn't___, I cannot make money doing what I love, I am stuck in this job, people at work should respect me...

12)  My Mother is / was _____,
 a pain in the ***, unloving, never there for me, too controlling, loved my sister more than me, should have been there for me, should spend more time with me, etc...

Dianne Sikel
Intimacy Educator & Advocate

602-908-4178

What makes me different from a therapist, counselor or spiritual teacher/ Guru is that -

1)  I know that giving you my advice, my insights or answers to your problems has little or no value in your life. YOU are the One! I simply offer to share the process that can help you  uncover the answers you need inside of YOU!!! I have the answers I need for me & You have the answers inside of You for You. You hold the key to your freedom-

I am happy to share my own experiences with The Work & Life, and show you how to do The Work.... but not from a place of superior wisdom, textbook bullshit, or new age mumbo jumbo- and without hypocrisy or judgment
                                      Btw: I am not licensed in Arizona or any other state as a mental/medical health person

2)  I will not pretend to know more than You – about – You

3)  I have done a lot of my own Work... I will share what is working for me in my life- not just textbook stuff.  I am a lover of Reality- not the way other people think things should be
I have my own mentors, coaches and regularly practice what I will share with You.- I call this 'Integrity'

4)   I am not a "Guru"- I am just like you I'm real. I deal with my own 'shit' and my tool of choice is The Work
 Relationships are very important and I have some tools that can help you create enriching   relationships too!

- I share this process that works for Me because of the POWER of simplicity in It ... I have personally experienced amazing results using this process in my life.

5)  I am not easily offended. You can tell me your 'stuff'.

No Sugar Coating necessary

I don't do therapy. I don't diagnose "disorders". I don't do treatment. I am NOT medically trained and am not a "the-rapist"- one who forces labels, diagnoses or theories on you

I am eager to share what I know- and personally use- to help you and others find some peace in your lives and relationships. We may not always be happy, but we can have peace- no matter what life gives us

Nothing you reveal to me will shock, offend or suprise me. No Sugar Coating is necessary....

Dianne Sikel
Confidante & Intimacy Educator
CanWeGetAlong@hotmail.com
602.908.4178

Legal:  I am not licensed in Arizona or any other state as a mental/medical health person I DO NOT diagnose, label or treat issues.....I am not a licensed therapist or Counselor. I have studied and taken several courses, workshops and trainings towards my degree in Addiction and Substance Abuse Counseling.  I love sharing what I have learned- and what has helped me get through the "junk" I went through.   

Confidante- A Women to whom personal and private matters are disclosed. One who your secrets can be shared with. 
Advocate- One that supports and promotes the interests of another
Intimacy- A feeling or atmosphere of closeness and connection. Honest communication. Not necessarily including sexuality